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Is it a good father, no

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发表于 2018-6-27 12:13:31 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
I once had a friend, the word "father" was like a forbidden zone to him, he did not mention it himself, and we dared not say that if anyone did not care to talk about his father, he immediately showed the obvious loneliness in his face.
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Later, I heard that his father was a painter, the prodigal son, he would not be able to see his father, but he could hear all kinds of rumors about his father.

By the time he grew up, his father had been too old to continue his prodigal life, and the pattern between them had changed. His father began to want to be close to him, and his eyes were always in love. This gave him the possibility of revenge. He cut off all his father's hopes, including, just because his girlfriend went to visit his father once, and broke his hand with the little girl who was too rich.

Once I saw the father in the street. He was standing beside a temporary dining car and eating a lunch box. The whole face was buried in the lunch box. Looking at such an old man, you could not imagine that he had had a big and arrogant year.

This is an old age of too much grief and excitement, and of course, someone is luckier than him, like Xie Xian. His way of life can be understood by his children, he can also be self consistent, but when the prodigal son relies on that kind of energy, he will try to be a lonely old man.

Occasionally opening a reality show, he saw Xie Xian and a little friend a temporary grandchild. He loved the child very much. At some time, I thought he was able to resist the loneliness. He talked about the life of his solitude: his girlfriend had left, some life trifles made him unprepared, and he forgot to turn off the stove. When he came home several times, he saw all the smoke in the kitchen; he began to often turn over the old pictures, remember the children, but also accept the child's absence; although he said he had been used to a person's life, it was not difficult to see the loneliness in his eyes and the yearning for the happiness of the sky. At that moment, it was true that Xie Xian was old.

Yan Hong said that Xie Xian, when the prodigal son is old
It seems a little ridiculous to say that Xie Xian, more than 80, is "old". He used to see Xie Xian every time, but he always felt that he was not old. At this age, he still combs his horsetail, wears ear studs, opens two buttons on his shirt, has muscles on his arm, and his girlfriend is more than 30 years younger than him. If it was just a leather picture, he felt young from inside and outside. It was the kind of temperament that was unsuitable for the kind of hoist. It was not the kind of Zhu Ziqing who sent his son to the train, but he also went over the platform to buy some oranges for his father.

How can a man be never old? Maybe it's like Xie Xian, who knows she has children, but she doesn't have to remember that she is a father. When making a choice, it is still like a bachelor who only looks at his own heart, but no father usually does not have a pedantic outlook.

So he and Deborah, together, gathered, disagreed and dispersed, and their emotions were clear and clear. When Deborah got married, he could be there himself. After Deborah married, he could take his little girlfriend and have tea with his ex-wife. A common middle-aged man will have all kinds of scruples. It is not a matter in Xie Xian. He wants the flying life to stop him from flying.

He also dared to invest in a single throw. Nicholas Tse was 16 years old to sign the emperor. It was because Xie Xian was too confident in his investment and borrowed a huge amount of money from the boss. As a result, the money was drifted so much that he had to take his son's debt in the future and said Nicholas Tse was a bitter child as well as a child pawned in the old society. .

What kind of experience is it like having a father like Xie Xian?

The good news is that even if he sells you, he will let you help him to count the money, but he will give you a lot of space in spirit. He will not be like those who have a strong moral capital, to your life, let you feel, do not follow what he said to do, he will not be able to make a bitter life for you. You don't have to give up the life you want because of such a debt of conscience. If you think about it, it means that he acquiesced in what you want to do.

Therefore, we often say that Nicholas Tse is rebellious. In fact, Nicholas Tse is more respectful of his own heart than others. Father's willfulness makes him do not need to set rules for himself. He can choose love without age, marriage history and other conditions.

But there are bad things. Even though Nicholas Tse often wears sunglasses, it is not difficult for you to feel the fall in his eyes, unlike Huang Xiaoming, who has grown up in the hands of a father, mother, grandparents, and grandparents. His smile is short of warmth.

Yan Hong said that Xie Xian, when the prodigal son is old
The other side of freedom is alienation. When it comes to childhood, Nicholas Tse often complains involuntarily. Although he helped Xie Xian to repay his debts and buy a Rolls-Royce for Xie Xian, he was more like a habit that was formed when he was a young man. It was no wonder that Xie Xian would use "unfamiliar" to describe his relationship with Nicholas Tse.

It's hard to say that this state is good or bad. In fact, the warm and perfect parent-child relationship is always rare. Most love is full of holes. There is a special fire group on the bean. It is called "the curse of all parents". There are many people who complain that their parents are too thick and thick, to form their own bundles. Two of them are right to take one. So, Xie Xian can not be the worst one.


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