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It's wrong to cry without crying

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发表于 2018-7-2 11:31:37 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
Sometimes in a crowd, you suddenly feel unnecessary. I was six years old when I first had this feeling. It was in the movie theater, and with the melody of "only mother in the world", a large crowd of people in the dark were wiping their noses. I think all the other children are crying, so I feel alarmed. What should I do? I will never forget the mother's face on the screen. She is too miserable and helpless. I feel obliged to help her, but I can't cry. It was very embarrassing. I didn't want to think that I was an inextric bear child, and then I made a lot of hard to squeeze out two drops of tears, and I also felt a slight sense of sublime. It was probably my first time to kitsch. "How beautiful these tears are, how sweet the elegy, I would rather sing the elegy than eat and drink," one of the characters of the Troy women in Euripides. That's too right. Tears are a sign for many people to succeed in literary works. When I was a teenager, "Titanic", a female student and I said she had cried three times. I said, "what a good cry, and how the movie is finished." She turned around and ignored me.
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It's wrong to cry without crying
Darwin parsed the physiological process of crying, not complicated: babies cry most fiercest, because they pull the throat and adjacent tissues when they shout, the eye muscles contract, and then squeeze the tear tube to secrete tears to cool the eye balls overheated by hyperemia. The tears of a person must secrete 111-283 grams a day. Most of them pass through the tears to the nose, and the tears can not bear the tears, and tears flow out of the eyelids. But in many people's eyes, crying is still a mysterious and noble thing like ancient times. Cang Jie's character, because "good luck can not hide its secrets, so the rain and millet, the spirit can not escape its shape, so ghost night crying." Young Witte is probably the most famous crying guy in the history of literature. He can feel the comfort of tears when he drops it on his hands. Weeping probably played a part in the exchange. They read the poems of Chloe Bo Stock, an ancient poet, and the tears of the young men and women were teary as long as they spoke the names of the poets. It's better to cry than to say so much.
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It is said that animals also shed tears, but only their owners can see them. Tears have the function of expressing desire. Babies need milk, adults need solace, or there are other requirements. No one is more sad than the one who dies. He always wants to be driven behind his back. People say, "my tears are draining away," which means desperation. According to the concept of ancient Europeans (Aquinas), the act of adapting to nature makes people happy, as long as they are sad, crying is good, expression is also released. So when I saw the tragedy and cried, I felt that I had been purged. Tears allow us to shift our attention from our minds to our bodies. In the eyes of modern people, the ancient people cried for no reason many times. I Tsuha, a historian of the Holland, who studied medieval customs, said that the history of emotional statements was often exaggerated. The modern ethic is to show the feelings of the individual as little as possible, like the British housekeeper in the long day mark. Taishan collapsed before the end of the day. In view of the modern narrative, it is seldom seen that the protagonist wail and wail with his head, and often sees the tears of the Viscount of Mrs. Bovary's drops of water in disguise. In the film, some heroes will cry, and the director will give the tears a close-up, "the first blood" close to the end, Stallone cried to the officer, "we love the country, I hope she can love me as we love her!" At this time he was able to cry, because he had done a lot of things in front of him to prove his heroic spirit, the tears would not give him the marks of the male temperament, but instead became the strawberries on the high cake. Heroism, patriotism and family are the most common reasons for men to cry.
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People are generally not very convinced of the tears of politicians. Bentham said that if a person looks sad, he does not necessarily feel that way. Cromwell has the courage to transcend the ordinary people, but it is very easy to weep. This is not to say that he is sentimental, but that tears have become his tools, like Liu Bei's crying in Jingzhou, and that many statesmen are able to control their emotions. In 1972, Edmund Muskie weep in front of the media. The public thought he was too fragile, and later he really lost the US presidential election. He later argued that it was not tears, but the melting snow on his face. But too late, politicians should always grasp the opportunity to cry and laugh. Clinton talked and laughed at the funeral of the next Minister of Commerce. When he found himself on the mirror, he immediately sat in tears. As Baudrillard said, it did not happen as long as it was not taken by a television camera.
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Back to my tears story. After several years of the Titanic incident, I came to read the outsider. The protagonist's mother died, and everyone waited for him to wail. He did not forget to satirize a few words: "he was thrilled and sad, and the tears of the big drop flowed on the upper cheeks. However, due to the relationship between the wrinkles, tears could not flow, scattered and gathered again, and a layer of water was spread on the face that described the big change. I vaguely felt that Camus was laughing when he wrote this sentence. Yang Guimei, who played "mom loves me once more", later acted as an old girl in "food and drink".

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