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Why do you always say little words and don't want to talk to people?

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发表于 2018-7-3 12:28:59 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
Why do you always say little words and don't want to talk to people?

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There are some people who are relatively silent, who are not good at expressing their ideas before and after people, and maintain the principle of "silence is golden". But this does not explain any psychological problems of these people. What's more, people who don't have much to talk about and communicate with others are usually more introverted and gentle. As people often say, "God closes a door for you and opens another door for you." this part of the person is smart, observant, patient and thoughtful, and is good at thinking. It is fully competent for most social work and interpersonal activities, but there are still some limitations to some outreach work such as sales.
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However, lack of interpersonal skills or social initiative may lead to such inconvenience in social life. If these people have such personal feelings and desire to change, try to adjust their self cognition.

There are no perfect things in the world, and of course, there are no perfect people. Su Dongpo, a great scholar in the Song Dynasty, wrote in the song "song of the water" that "there is a man and a joys and joys and joys and joys and joys and sorrows, the moon is not full, this is difficult to be complete," and the pursuit of perfection will hinder the development of things and the exertion of individual abilities. Relax a little bit low on your own requirements, to accept a bit of unsatisfactory or failure in your work and life, or you may be able to achieve unexpected results.

Think all the best. Maybe someone's casual words hurt you and made you afraid of social interaction. But this is not meant to be on your own. In the ten thousand step, even if this is the case, it will probably come from the goodwill of the speaker. Think more about the benefits of others, be lenient with others while treating yourself kindly.
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If you are a taciturn person, please respect others' way of life. Because the world is large and needs to be poured out, people also need to listen patiently. Bless everyone.

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